Here We Go! It’s Time to Start Toilet Training

Toilet training is a huge milestone for both children and parents. It’s an exciting step towards independence, but let’s be honest – it can also be a little daunting! Every child is different, and the process takes time, patience, and encouragement.

At Little Scribblers, we support families through this important stage by providing a nurturing and positive learning environment that reinforces toilet training routines in childcare and preschool. Whether you’re just starting out or facing a few setbacks, we’re here to help!

How do I know if my child is ready for toilet training?

Toilet training works best when your child shows signs of readiness. Every child develops at their own pace, but most children start showing interest between 18 months and 3 years old. Look out for these cues:

• Dry nappies for longer periods (at least 2 hours at a time)
• Telling you when they have a wet or dirty nappy
• Hiding to go in their nappy (this means they are aware of the need to go)
• Showing curiosity about the toilet or copying older siblings
• Pulling pants up and down independently
• Waking up dry from naps

If your child is showing some or all of these signs, they might be ready to begin the toilet training journey!

Toilet training tips for parents

Starting toilet training can feel overwhelming, but with consistent strategies, your child will gradually build confidence. Here’s how to set them up for success:

1. Introduce the idea in a positive way

• Start by talking about the toilet in a relaxed, encouraging way.
• Read toilet training books together to make it fun and relatable.
• Let your child watch you use the toilet so they can learn through imitation.

2. Set up a child-friendly toilet routine

• Use a potty or a toddler toilet seat to make them feel comfortable.
• Encourage them to sit on the potty at regular times, such as after meals or before bed.
• Let them flush the toilet and wash their hands, making it part of the routine.

3. Dress for success

• Choose easy-to-pull-down pants or underwear to encourage independence.
• Avoid tricky zippers or tight clothing that might make it hard for them to get to the toilet in time.

4. Use positive reinforcement

• Celebrate small wins! Praise their efforts, even if they don’t go every time.
• Use a reward system, like a sticker chart, to make it fun.
• Avoid punishment—accidents are part of learning. Instead, reassure them and try again next time.

5. Be patient and expect accidents

• Some days will be successful, and others will feel like a setback—that’s okay!
• Have spare clothes on hand, especially when out and about.
• Stay calm if accidents happen; simply say, “That’s okay! Let’s try again next time.”

Toilet training at childcare: how we support families at Little Scribblers

We know that consistency is key when toilet training, which is why we work in partnership with families to reinforce routines at childcare and preschool.

At Little Scribblers, we:

• Follow your child’s individual toilet training routine—just let us know where they are in the process!
• Offer gentle encouragement and reminders throughout the day.
• Provide child-friendly bathroom facilities designed for little learners.
• Use positive reinforcement to build confidence and self-esteem.
• Help children learn self-care skills, like washing hands after using the toilet.

Working together ensures that your child has a consistent experience at home and in childcare, making toilet training a smoother process.

Common toilet training challenges and solutions

Every child’s toilet training journey is different. If you’re facing a few bumps in the road, here are some common challenges and how to overcome them:

🚽My child refuses to sit on the toilet

Solution: Don’t force them! Offer fun potty time activities, like reading a book while they sit. Let them choose a potty in their favourite colour or decorate it with stickers.

🚽My child is afraid of flushing

Solution: Some children are scared of the loud noise. Let them watch you flush and explain that it helps keep the toilet clean. If they’re still unsure, let them flush with your help until they feel comfortable.

🚽 Accidents keep happening

Solution: Accidents are normal and expected! Keep extra clothes handy and avoid making a big deal about it. Try reminding them more often and encourage them to use the toilet before playtime or outings.

🚽 My child is doing well at home but not at childcare

Solution: Changes in routine can affect toilet training. Talk to your child’s educators to ensure they are reinforcing the same approach as you do at home. At Little Scribblers, we always work closely with families to provide a consistent, supportive experience.

How long does toilet training take?

Others take several months. The key is to stay patient, be flexible, and offer encouragement.

Most children:

• Learn daytime toilet training first.
• Take longer to stay dry during naps and nighttime.
• Have occasional accidents, even after they’re mostly trained.

Remember—every child learns at their own pace. If toilet training isn’t going smoothly, take a break and try again in a few weeks when they’re more ready.

Final thoughts: you’ve got this!

Toilet training is a big step, and it’s okay to feel a little nervous. The most important thing is to make the process positive, stress-free, and encouraging for your child.

At Little Scribblers, we’re here to support you through every stage of early childhood development. If you’re looking for a childcare centre that works closely with families and provides a nurturing, play-based learning environment, we’d love to welcome you!

🚽 Ready to give your child the best start in early learning?

Enquire today to find out how we support children through toilet training and beyond.