From Home to Childcare: How to Help Your Child Transition Smoothly

Starting childcare, daycare, or preschool for the first time is a big milestone for both children and parents. Whether your child has spent their early years at home with Mum or Dad or has only ever been around close family, the transition to early childhood education can feel overwhelming.

At Little Scribblers, we understand that separation anxiety, new routines, and big emotions can make this transition challenging. But with preparation, patience, and support, you can help your child feel secure, confident, and excited about their new adventure.

Here’s everything you need to know about supporting your child as they move from full-time home care to early learning.

Why the transition to childcare can feel big for young children

If your child has never attended daycare, nursery, or long day care, the idea of being away from Mum or Dad for extended periods may feel strange and even scary. Some common emotions children experience include:

• Separation anxiety – Feeling nervous about being apart from parents.
• New environment jitters – Adjusting to a new space, new faces, and a different routine.
• Excitement mixed with uncertainty – Eager to explore but unsure about the changes.
• Overstimulation fatigue – A busy and engaging learning environment can be tiring at first.

But don’t worry—these feelings are normal! With the right support, your child will adjust, make friends, and thrive in their new setting.

How to prepare your child for the transition to childcare or preschool

1. Start talking about childcare early

• Introduce the concept positively by talking about all the fun things they will do (e.g., playing, painting, making new friends).
• Read books about starting daycare or preschool to make the idea familiar.
• Reassure them that Mummy or Daddy will always come back to pick them up.

2. Visit the centre together

• Arrange a tour of the childcare centre before their official start date.
• Let your child meet the educators and explore the space to build familiarity.
• If possible, attend a short orientation session so they can see what a typical day looks like.

3. Practice short separations

• If your child is used to being with you all day, ease into separation by arranging short playdates or time with grandparents.
• Gradually increase the time spent apart so they feel comfortable being with others.

4. Establish a consistent goodbye routine

• A simple, predictable goodbye routine can make drop-offs easier (e.g., a hug, a special handshake, and a cheerful “See you soon!”).
• Avoid lingering or sneaking out, as this can increase anxiety.

5. Pack a comfort item

• Many children adjust better when they have a familiar item from home.
• A favourite teddy, blanket, or family photo can provide reassurance throughout the day.

What to expect in the first few weeks of childcare

It’s normal for children to take time to adjust to a new routine, and every child adapts at their own pace. Here’s what you might notice:

• Tears at drop-off (but they usually settle quickly!) – Some children cry at drop-off but calm down within minutes once engaged in play.
• Tiredness and emotional ups and downs – New experiences can be physically and emotionally tiring, so expect some extra cuddles at home.
• Changes in eating and sleeping patterns – Some children take a little time to adjust to new mealtime and nap routines.

At Little Scribblers, our caring educators provide extra support, cuddles, and encouragement to help children settle in and feel at home. We keep parents informed throughout the day so you can feel reassured about your child’s progress.

How parents can support a smooth transition

🌟 Stay positive and confident

Children pick up on parental emotions, so if you’re calm and positive about childcare, they are more likely to feel the same.

🌟 Talk about their day after pick-up

Ask open-ended questions like:

• “What was your favourite thing you did today?”
• “Did you meet any new friends?”
• “Tell me about a fun game you played!”

Even if they don’t say much at first, these conversations help them process their experiences.

🌟 Keep evenings relaxed

Adjusting to childcare can be tiring at first, so create calm, screen-free evenings with plenty of cuddles, stories, and downtime.

🌟 Communicate with educators

Stay connected with your child’s educators and share any concerns or questions. The team at Little Scribblers is always here to provide guidance and updates about your child’s progress.

Final thoughts: it gets easier!

Starting childcare, daycare, or preschool for the first time is a big change, but with the right support, children quickly adjust and thrive in their new environment.

At Little Scribblers, we create a warm, nurturing space where children feel safe, loved, and excited to learn. Our educators are trained to support children through transitions, ensuring they settle in with confidence and ease.

💡 Looking for a childcare centre that truly supports your child’s transition? Enquire today to learn how Little Scribblers helps children settle into early learning with care, patience, and personalised support.